The Breakup Moment: If you have read my Weekly Watchlist post, I gave this show a 🦋 rating. I had to pull the plug at Episode 8 when I felt that the mental health issue of the female lead was taken too lightly for me to continue.
💤 Why I’m Choosing Sleep Over This:
- The “Wait, What?” Factor: The use of dissociative identity disorder (DID) as a plot device for a romantic story or even a rom-com is incredibly insensitive. What happened in Episode 8 really made zero sense to me!
- Character Chemistry: I don’t have a problem with the two main characters – Joo Ho Jin and Cha Mu Hee. They actually look good together. It’s the usage of Do Ra Mi appearing for no reason at most times is what pissing me off.
- The Pace: Okay, it is way too slow. When you see the main couple about to get it together, plot twists – it’s either Shin Ji Sun, Hiro or Do Ra Mi. There’s only so much that I can take as a viewer.
📉 The “Sleepy Scale” at the Time of Death:
- Rating: 🦋 Heart-Flutter (Well, it was heart-fluttering until it was absolutely not. Instead, it became 😠)
- Verdict: Not worth my blood pressure going up.
🌙 The Deep Dive (Why it went wrong)
Spoiler Alert: This section contains details up to Episode 8.
- The Do Ra Mi Problem: I understand that Cha Mu Hee had a traumatic experience that led her to have DID. Do Ra Mi is her alter. I get it. Do Ra Mi appearing to protect her during overwhelming experiences like the event with her horrible family. Understandable. But why did she just appear when Cha Mu Hee ask into the mirror? “What will Do Ra Mi do now when I close my eyes?” or something along those lines. What? And Do Ra Mi proceeded to strut her way to Hiro and kiss him? Look, I don’t have DID but what is traumatic or overwhelming about the so-called date with Hiro? Cha Mu Hee already apologized for not remembering and partly not being able to understand him. Maybe it is overwhelming for Cha Mu Hee. But as a viewer of a drama, it is too light-hearted of a situation for an alter to come out. In this case, I felt that Do Ra Mi is just being used as a plot device to make a romance story between her and Hiro. That makes no sense!
- Plot Twists: I am okay with slow burn. And most people who like this show commented about the slow burn. Sure, totally understandable. But the amount of twists and turns of this show is like that road that Joo Ho Jin drove in Canada in one of the episodes. Everytime the two main characters looked like they were about to get it together, someone or something would just come up and spoil the plans. And then it’s back to these two just staring teary-eyed at each other. Like really? I signed up for a rom-com and not driving down the winding roads of the relationship of these two.
🔄️ The “Watch This Instead” Recommendation
Since we’re not watching this anymore, here is what you should put on your screen instead:
- If you want to watch a show that treat DID in a less light-hearted way: United States of Tara (though do note that it is more on the extreme side and realistically, such extreme cases are rare) or It’s Okay, That’s Love (one of the side characters have DID and the show did do a little more justice to people struggling with mental health).
- If you want to watch Kim Seon Ho: The Childe. I know it’s a not a drama but a movie. But he really surprised me here.
- If you want to watch Go Youn Jung: Moving or Sweet Home.
💬 What do you think?
Am I being too hard? Does it make sense after Episode 8 or was I right to save my sleep? Let me know!
Stay awake with me (or not),
Siti




























